SOMETIMES PUT OUTSIDE YOUR OFFICE, POSITION AND RIGHTS, AND GO AFTER A SON THAT DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO MANAGE EXIT HONOURABLY

SOMETIMES PUT OUTSIDE YOUR OFFICE, POSITION AND RIGHTS, AND GO AFTER A SON THAT DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO MANAGE EXIT HONOURABLY:

MOST ESPECIALLY FOR SONS AND DAUGHTERS THAT ARE BORN AND RAISED IN YOUR HOUSE:

ALSO FOR SONS AND DAUGHTERS THAT YOU HAVE INVESTED SO MUCH IN THEM:

THEY WONT TEACH YOU THIS IN BIBLE SCHOOL, YOU WILL MEET IT ON THE FIELD OF MINISTRY:

CASE STUDY ONE:

I put a call to him and said, My son, it is your right to leave, but I have invested so much in you that you can't afford to go as an enemy. I want you to leave in such a way that you will go with the blessing of the house. Let's still be relating as one family, even after you leave. You can still visit and worship with us because you are one of my investments in ministry.

From his own end, Daddy, for you to call me, I don't deserve it. I am going nowhere, forgive your son, my head is now correct sir. To even take the phone and call me, I am on my knees, sir.  Today, We are still serving God together doing very well. He is a son of consolations. He may choose to go tomorrow, but I won't accept him going as an enemy.

CASE STUDY TWO:

I called him and said to him, my son, Papa dey offend Pikin, I have offended you by not keeping my side of our agreement, please forgive me. See why I did what I did.  So sorry my son, I know how you feel. Instead of you going this way, come let's find a way around it. Give me a second chance.

From his own end. Daddy, for you to call me, I don't deserve it. Sorry for the way I left. I felt you did not consider my own side, when you took your decision.

i should have been told. Please sir, just give me this month to clear my table where I am at the moment. I will be coming back fully. Answers Assembly is my church. Today he is still in church, one of our biggest assets as a church.

It doesn't take anything away from you to be the one who first reaches out to your son or daughter who is exiting the wrong way. You are doing it out of love, not because you can't do without them. That is what makes you a true father.

Some may be restored back to the house, some will also know you have nothing against them. In all like Christ, you have appeared again to Peter and the other disciples who went back to their fishing business after the death of Christ. Christ did not say, after all my investments, they still went to fishing. HE APPEARED AGAIN. IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO APPEAR AGAIN TO THAT DISCIPLE OF YOURS.

The idea is not for them not to go, but for them not to go the wrong way. You have a role to play as a father.

BE BLESSED IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME.