SCRIPTURE:2SAMUEL 13:23-38.
This is an insignificant cankerworm that destroys the blessings of God's Children. Bitterness and Grudges are prisons that hinder us from experience God's abundance.Its very important we break out these prisons for God's plans for us to manifest.
Its obvious that when someone you care about hurts you, you can hold on to anger, resentment and thoughts of revenge — or embrace forgiveness and move forward.
These wounds can leave you with lasting feelings of anger and bitterness — even vengeance. This was exactly the case with Absalom from our text above. Romans 12:17a says "Repay no one evil for evil"
If you don't practice forgiveness, you might be the one who pays most dearly. By embracing forgiveness, you can also embrace peace, hope, gratitude and joy. Consider how forgiveness can lead you down the path of physical, emotional and spiritual well-being.The Bible says in Proverbs 17:22a that, "A merry heart doeth good like a medicine".
What then is forgiveness?
Forgiveness means different things to different people. Generally, however, it involves a decision to let go of resentment and thoughts of revenge.Let’s face it: Forgiving others (and yourself) is sometimes easier said than done. However, it doesn’t have to be. So the next time you find yourself feeling hurt by someone’s actions or overwhelmed with frustration over a situation that occurred, turn to the Bible for advice.
The act that hurt or offended you might always be with you, but forgiveness can lessen its grip on you and help free you from the control of the person who harmed you. Forgiveness can even lead to feelings of understanding, empathy and compassion for the one who hurt you.
Forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting or excusing the harm done to you or making up with the person who caused the harm. Forgiveness brings a kind of peace that helps you go on with life.
Letting go of grudges and bitterness can make way for improved health and peace of mind."Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice." Ephesians 4:31 Forgiveness can lead to:
•Healthier relationships
•Improved mental health
•Less anxiety, stress and hostility
•Lower blood pressure
•Fewer symptoms of depression
•A stronger immune system
•Improved heart health
•Improved self-esteem
Being hurt by someone, particularly someone you love and trust, can cause anger, sadness and confusion. If you dwell on hurtful events or situations, grudges filled with resentment, vengeance and hostility can take root. If you allow negative feelings to crowd out positive feelings, you might find yourself swallowed up by your own bitterness or sense of injustice.
Acknowledge your emotions about the harm done to you and how they affect your behavior, and work to release them.
Choose to forgive the person who's offended you. It's not an option but the best choice to make.
Forgiveness can be challenging, especially if the person who's hurt you doesn't admit wrong. The offender must not necessarily say :I am sorry before you forgive the person. "If you find yourself stuck: Still forgive even if the offender doesn't admit his or her wrong. You have to let it go and move on so as to be right with God.
Somebody is asking if forgiveness guarantee reconciliation.
If the hurtful event involved someone whose relationship you otherwise value, forgiveness can lead to reconciliation. This isn't always the case, however.
Reconciliation might be impossible if the offender has died or is unwilling to communicate with you. In other cases, reconciliation might not be appropriate. Still, forgiveness is possible — even if reconciliation isn't.
Sometimes you are the one who needs forgiveness.
If you're truly sorry for something you've said or done, consider admitting it to those you've harmed. Speak of your sincere sorrow or regret, and ask for forgiveness without making excuses.
Rev Apostle Focho Larry
Elohim Tabernacle Ministry.
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