Apostle Alain Joshua has sparked an important conversation regarding church order, pastoral boundaries, and the qualifications required for handling marital matters within the body of Christ.
Pondering whether it is appropriate for unmarried pastors to offer marriage counseling or officiate weddings, Apostle Alain Joshua expressed strong concerns about the quality of marital guidance being given from the pulpit today:
"I have seen single pastors preach passionately about marriage and dish out terrible marital advice. In fact, I have seen unmarried pastors bless (officiate) marriages. I really think a person who hasn't walked a path doesn't stand a chance of guiding others down it (in context)."
He emphasized that pastoral ordination alone does not automatically equip someone to counsel or bless a union, noting that many marriages have suffered unintentional dam@ge due to a lack of competence on the subject.
To bring order, saf.ety, and health back to the church environment, Apostle Alain Joshua outlined key principles that the clergy and congregation must consider:
Experience & Limits: Single pastors should refrain from blessing marriages and avoid preaching certain sermons on marriage that require lived experience.
Calling & Certification: Pastors must be specifically called to marriage ministry, as well as properly trained and certified (referencing James 3:1).
Legal & Civil Compliance: In many nations, officiating a marriage requires official government authorization or licensing beyond a pastoral title.
Restoring Order: Pointing to 1 Corinthians 14:40, he stressed that proper structure and accreditation are essential for keeping the church as a beacon of hope for the community.
Concluding his message, Apostle Alain Joshua noted:
"The church will always remain the hope of every community and that's when a certain order is set. We will get there eventually!"
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